to Stephen, 30 years ago we shared some very special moments and some memorable because they were not very nice for me to cope with. I was 22 yrs old , worked in a s/stn in Adelaide , you worked near-by and your boss had an account with us. I also worked as a waitress for a footy club on some evenings/weekends. You enjoyed a particular sport that I used to go to with you and we loved a particular place. We parted in 1979 when you just seemed to up and leave/ vanish after we had had a very heated fight.
This post is because at the time you said many things that I took very seriously about; life and what you thought of and about women and of children coming into the world unexpectedly. Two years ago I was contacted by a man who is the most wonderful human being, he wanted to know me and to thank me for not aborting him. He is also wanting to find out about his father. You, Steve are his father.
If you are interested in persuing this then please answer some of the following to prove to me who you are, then I will pass this information to your son to do as he wishes.
1. what s/stn did I work at and where was it, 2. what was the name of the footy club
where I waitressed 3. there was a place in Sydney that we spoke of where we always saw a poet, we used to say we would meet up there, what was it and what was it called 4. what was the nickname that you had for me and why and lastly what was our very special place and what sort of car and colour of car did you have ..
I know that it has been nearly 30 yrs but the answers to these questions should (if you were being truthful,) be very vivid still from the past.
Your son is a very handsome and caring and wonderful man, please consider carefully for it would be wrong to cause him pain but he feels he must / wants to know about you if you have it in your heart to reach out.